You found him/her on Facebook, now what? Do you just continue to message until someone gets tired of it? Dr. Dennis helps a guy with his Facebook dilemma.
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Hello Dr. Neder:
This last weekend, I bumped into an old friend that happens to be
friends with my ex. She was with another friend with whom I hit it off really
well. We all decided to go hang out for a while.
She and I flirted quite a bit and we spent the entire evening
together. She and I took a taxi home where I kissed her on the cheek when we
got to her place.
She gave me her Facebook name and I friended her. As well, I left
my number with out mutual friend.
Since all of this happened, I
haven’t heard anything from her. I may just be getting a little impatient, but
I’m not sure what to do to keep her interested.
Hello!
Why didn’t you close this girl for her digits when you had the
chance? Now, you have to play the Facebook game with her, going back and forth
and you STILL have to get her number anyway! That’s terrible form – and you’d
better trust me on this one – she IS going to play you here! You set yourself
up for this and now she’s going to take full advantage of it.
Here’s a simple rule: don’t EVER accept only an email address or
Facebook or MySpace connection! It’s far, far easier to play you and try to
keep you on the hook as long as she can without going anywhere. This is exactly
what is going to happen now.
You didn’t bother asking me a question here – you just told me a
story, so I’m going to have to assume you want an answer as to what to do now.
The answer is to get her damn digits already! If she won’t give
them to you, you’re going to have to kick yourself for being so dumb and move
on.
Tell her to give them to you and CALL HER; DO NOT try to flirt or
date this girl on Facebook! You’re just going to cause her to lose interest
very quickly and you’ll lose her. Get to another date right away and turn on
the charm. This HAS TO (and I mean HAS TO) be done in person!!!!
Best regards…
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