It doesn't matter if you are dating or in a marriage or just in love, it can either make us feel better or worse about ourselves. We strive to find the one who will love us and make us feel like we are on top of the world, unfortunately that doesn't always happen.

One thing that many will try to do is find out if the reason for your difficulties in your relationships is because of the problems between the two of you or is it because of problems that originated early on in either your life or the other persons life. It can be exhausting trying to find the original root of the matter but one thing is obvious, you have problems now.

As people grow more accustomed to an increasingly media-saturated society, audiences tend to become more jaded-or at least cynical. In these times it can be a daunting task to sincerely inspire and move a modern audience. However, some speakers have proven to be consistently inspiring, uplifting, and often hilarious commentators on the human condition-and have enjoyed a rewarding career in the public eye as a result. Here are a few of the top inspirational speakers of 2009.

Bill Cosby As one of the most consistently charming comedians of the last forty years, Bill Cosby is known the world over as a very funny man. However, as countless audiences each year will attest, he's also a highly original, thought-provoking, and inspirational speaker.